will this work will radio buttons.
add_filter( 'wpcf7_additional_mail', 'my_wpcf7_use_mail_2_or_not', 10, 2 );
function my_wpcf7_use_mail_2_or_not( $additional_mail, $cf ) {
if ( 'yes' != $cf->posted_data['sendcopy'] )
$additional_mail = array();
return $additional_mail;
}
[radio Sendacopy id:Sendacopy "Yes" "No"]